How do you feel about hearing about OW? It makes me sick everytime my h mentions her. SO when he does, I dont answer. Thats my boundary. For now anyway.
I tend to agree, no contact is NO CONTACT. SHe is unstable..ok but you dont really know how she will react. She may do nothing. From my chair wayyyy over here, it looks like h is trying to make an excuse. I could be wrong. "i cant not contact her! She may do <fill in the blank>" "it would ruin us!" You cant live in that kind of fear. Because now who has control of how you are reacting. Not you...you are making decisions based on hearsay from your h about his OW. She' unstable? Even MORE reason for no contact.
Many many hugs hon...hope you have a great Thanksgiving.
