Save my marriage to w she is moving on

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I too have been in this for just under two months. At the beginning my H didn't call either to talk to the kids. It was sad. It was so hard to understand how a person who sees their children everyday, kisses them good night every night, could just go a few days without even talking to them. It was incredible. But its not our job to try to understand how they are feeling. I don't think we can. My sitch is changing a bit, so I have more contact with H now, almost daily. But he still doesn't ask to talk to the kids, we have contact really for the sake of talking. Its sad. I always offer though. When H calls, I always ask if he wants to talk to S3. Pathetic. I can't get inside of his brain, and won't try. I don't look at it as he is a bad father, cause he is an awesome daddy. I just think he has some issues right now, and its unexplainable, just cross my fingers it changes one day.