Can I save my marriage?

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We do have similar situations. Especially the ages of our kids! Crazy. So sad that at that age their parents are not longer together. Makes me sick. Really. We were planning on extending our family...what...just over 2 years ago? My baby is 20 months old. Pathetic if you ask me. How could you have just brought another human being into this world a year and a half ago, and now be wanting to only see that bundle of joy half time. Ugh. sorry bout the rant

My parents were here this weekend and actually told me that back in April when we were visiting them, I must have been in bed already and H and my parents were visiting and my parents were talking about this young man in town that left his family. My step-mom told me that H's response was, "How could you ever do that to your family? I would go to the end of time to keep my family together. There is no way I could do something like that" Hmmmmm....he just said this comment 7 months ago? What could possibly change in seven months. Strange

So I mentioned that MC wants me to sit down and talk to H about the sitch, cause I'm walking on eggshells, and there is no way we will be able to rebuild our marriage and make it a healthy one if continue in the path I'm taking....I want to keep DB'ing really, it seems to keep him around, but how long do you wait? Sometimes I think H is too scared to bring up R. The other night when he sat on my couch and said how much he missed home, it was like he was waiting for me to say something. When do you take an open invitation to reciprocate?