Can I save my marriage?

[TrentC]

I thought maybe it was a friend at first, but I have asked everyone, nobody will fess up to it. I dunno.

Then let it go and take it for the compliment it is.

Trent, you think that's why he was off again today? And why he brought up xmas?

It's entirely likely.

Just let him stew. You are finally getting the hang of it, so don't give up just yet.