Is this the end of my marriage?

[newmama]

P,sorry for repeating my q about wanting kids---I misread an answer!


Now, I just find it hard to think your W is actually evil although she may be acting like it. Let's brainstorm explanations for not going to see your mum:

1) W feels guilty and thinks your mum must hate her for what she did& is afraid to face her

2)W doesn't want to leave OM alone to go visit

3)W needs to get time off from work...what are other reasons?

As you can tell, I am not a believer in a cookie cutter one size fits all plan, so if it is eating you alive not knowing why your W doesn't want to see your mum, then find a way to ask her.

You could send a text or an email to find out, prefacing it with a message about how this situation calls for breaking NC temporarily.

Others may disagree though.