Mindseye,

I guess I consider my CS agreement null or void and have reverted completely to following the DB guidelines. My sitch sounds a little different then yours. At least you two are communicating and going out on 'dates'. The only time H and I speak is in regards to the kids, and 'dating' is out of the question. Currently, I feel like the only reason H hasn't filed for D yet is because of this agreement we setup.

Here is the thread I created today. That will give you some more insight on what I am going to do.

Need some advice from experienced DBer's

Back to your sitch. If it seems to be working for you, keep doing it. Just be sure to follow the DB advice and only focus on the things that you can control.

Mo3

Me & H: 33 yrs
S: 4 & 6
D: 2
M: 9 yrs
ILYBNILWY: 8/09
SEPARATED: 9/09
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