Can I save my marriage?

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So I just don't know why this has to be soo hard. I feel like somedays I won't make it. My heart is being ripped in two.

We had a wonderful friday night. Chris made some very good comments about us. He was physical with me. He called me each night the next two nights and then when I went to get the boys today. He was cold again. Not mean or rude just not like he was friday night. He also asked me what my plans are for Christmas. Well two night ago, you want to hang things on "our" walls, buy a tv for "our" bedroom, fix our deck in the spring, you supposedly "miss home" but now you have no intentions of coming home again by asking about my plans for Christmas. I honestly felt friday like he was trying to indirectly tell me he is ready to come home, but today its the opposite. I don't know what to do.

One event happened. I got annonymous flowers at work! As good as H and I were doing I thought they were from him. So the next time I talked to him I asked him. He said no they weren't. He then asked if I knew who they were from, but if they weren't from him then I have no idea who they were from? Then today when I talked to him later, he asked if I got more flowers at work. I said no, he obviously asked cause it was bothering him. Then when I picked up the kids he asked AGAIN if I figured out who they were from. And then made the comment, "Well, that's good for you, you have guys chasing after you" I said, ya I guess.

Then he saw us out of his sisters house. I don't know what to do. My MC thinks I need to sit down with him and talk about this confusion. I don't know. Help please.