Summer 2009

[Between Tears]

Well, Snodderly,

I'm not feeling all that safe at the moment either, and Dick was in town last week, not this. The vet said had I not stuffed the dogs with bread as soon as I saw them, and recognized what had happened, they's probably be dead, and JJ's injuries were blunt forced, as if he'd been hit by a brick. He was hit on the side of his jaw, his ear wasn't swollen, nor was his neck injured, so we know it wasn't a car.

Twice a week, I have a visitor who drives into the end of my driveway, and only pulls into the drive enough to check around. I've seen the truck myself, but taking a picture of a vehicle without the tag (KS only tags in the rear) is pretty much useless.

S was given a car, and the money for an apartment and will receive this money every month ONLY if he stays away from me. Obviously, he's not abiding by it, but I had also hoped he'd be moving in with me but he can't. If he does, he will loose not only the rent money but the car too. S likes the car, and wants to get a job, and here in this little place, a car is mandatory.

Now D who was talking with me, is now being quiet, as she believes I am trying to keep her from her Summer job, but forcing to visit me during the summer vacation. She was going to come out for Christmas, but now I'm not so certain.

Dick is up to his usual control, and none of us our out from beneath his thumb.

[WCW]

OMG, dick the jerk goes after animals too? the man is demented. I hope your dogs will recover and be okay. What kind of dogs are they?

Did your well stop working or did the water go bad?

Take pictures of that truck even if you can't get the license plate. How far away is the end of your drive? maybe you can enlarge the picture enough to id the driver. They do it on tv shows!

Happy Birthday to your S18! Transportation and a job is real important at that age, but it sounds like he is standing his ground about who he chooses to be around. Yeah for you!

I wish better things for you. Take care of you.

[job]

I think you already know where my mind is going....Dick, in his passive aggressive manner, is having someone stick it to you. The man can't let it go. As for dictating to your son about where he lives, well....I guess he can do that until your son graduates because of the monetary value he has placed on his parenting. I can't wait until you children have graduated and you can then tell Dick to kiss your @ss.

I do not like what you have been experiencing. You will need to take a very clear picture and then take it somewhere to have it blown up. You need to find out who is doing this. I guess my question is this, what or why does he even care what you aer doing? I know, I'm asking the question of the year.

Please take care of yourself.

[BeingMe]

I know that you don't have a lot of money, but if you had enough to cover some equipment like a camera onto your driveway and where the dogs usually hang out, and the well, that would be a great start. Definitely, photograph any unusual activity when you see it. Sometimes, things may not seem relevant at the time, but in retrospect, be very important.

I am afraid that getting rid of the dogs is a preamble to further harrassment. Don't want to scare you though, but I think you are already wise to all this. In my home country, the dogs die, then the house gets burglarized soon after. Many people there, train their dogs to only eat from their owners, inside, and they end up have to be euthanized if the owner passes away, if they can't be re-trained.

Your ex has stomped on so many laws - lying in court for one - that I cannot believe he will get away with it forever. (I don't understand a person who would harrass another person's ex - why take the chance of getting into trouble for their sake? Boggles my mind.) People like that always end up making that one mistake that unravels it all, especially when there is a vested interest in someone wanting the truth, such as you and your lawyers. They get complacent, lazy, and over confident of getting away with it. BTW, does he haunt his first wife's life? Could she be an ally?
[quote]what or why does he even care what you aer doing? (/quote] Because he is a dumb@ss fool, IMHO, who just likes to do stuff like this. Sometimes, there is no answer --- maybe, projecting his stuff onto others, and really believing his cr@p.

Take care, and as Snodderly says, "I can't wait until your children have graduated and you can then tell Dick to kiss your @ss."

[Andabelle]

This is too scary. I hope your pups are alright.

Maybe you should talk to the cops. Even though you can't prove anything, they might be able to give you some good tips on how to protect yourself and your animals.

[Creed]

L'ing-

I don't even know what to say. I just wish I could be there for you instead of only sending thoughts and prayers.

I do agree with the poster to talk to your local PD. Make sure they have on record what has been happening, and your feelings about it being 'suspicious'. You don't have to suggest to them you think it may be X that is behind it...but at least they will have on record these strange and unsettling events so if there is more to come in the future, they can start to see the pattern themselves. If they as if you have any guesses as to who may want to harrass you, THEN tell them it's quite possibly the X.

Please take care

[WCW]

Thinking of you and hoping you have a good Thanksgiving!

[Between Tears]

Thank You and happy holiday to you all!

my computer is being tempermental and not allowing me to post as often as I would like, however, I can see and read each of your posts.... bear with me, and know I am following each of You.

Dick has given S moneY for an aparTmenT and will conTinue To do so as long as he has noThing To do wiTh me. D's visiT will be compleTlY conTrolled bY Dick, as he has alreadY said she will noT be allowed To sTaY wiTh me or spend Time with me.....

i'm burying myself in work/housework and cooking... along wiTh Tending To The animals needs... as mY mind wonders inTo waYs of finding some or one agencY who could sTep in and give me a hand wiTh Dick.

i've had enough! iT's Time To expose The currupTion for whaT it is. if ou know of one, please let me know.

happY Thanksgiving To You all!

Blessings

[job]

I hope that you are able to get some rest today. I realize it's difficult being alone on this special day, but let's hope that things will be different this time next year. Your son, just may come by and visit w/you. Let's hope that your d will call or email you as well.

As for exposing the crazy man, here's food for thought....it's time to expose him and what better way to do so than by a story written by your local paper on your trial and tribulations dealing with the judicial system? There has to be quite a number of single parents who go through what you do each and every day. This is a story that needs to be put to print and read by many. The only way the system will change is if it is exposed. Think about it. I think it's a "human interest" story that needs to be told.

Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family.

[Creed]

Ohhhhhhhh, Snodderly.....what a GRAND idea!!

I'm not sure of the legal ramifications if names were named..but she could have someone help her through those loopholes.

And what better insurance for her own safety than to make sure that plenty of people know the games that have been played, the threats made..and the general abusiveness she's been put through. If anything dangerous or malicious would happen, Dicky would be the first person that would be checked out.

Brilliant idea! Now to find a paper that isn't part of the Old Boys Club.

H@ll, I'd consider calling Oprah or Dr. Phil (snicker) As you said, I'm sure there are many, many people that go through this type of manipulation and abuse before, during and after a nasty divorce.

Wishing you a safe, warm and healthy Thanksgiving BT.