wish i read that, i keep telling myself too many words, she just texted me:
we made it.
the old me would've worried the whole trip and would want updates.that was one of her put downs, that i worried too much.
so i texted back:
knew u would enjoy the time.
She doesn't want to know that you knew she would endjoy the time. In fact, did she even say that? No! She just said she made it back. So, you say, "K". or better yet, nothing!
Several things are happening here. First, at least in this case, you read her mind, and told her what she was thinking. I don't expect that she likes that. You are making an imaginary conversation.
And, you are doing all the work. If she wants to say more than "we made it", let her. But don't put the words in her mouth.
Texting back like things are "normal" is going to make her think things are just the way they have been. Maybe not conciously, but it's there. Being different than she is used to, even just a little, will possibly get her to thinking that things are not the way they have been.
