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Re: Not Me...Ever part 2 Gardener #1881686 11/25/09 10:43 PM
Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 1,983 Florida S Serenity13 OP Member
OP Serenity13 Member S Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 1,983 Florida	That wasn't nice and I am sorry for even speaking like that. May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~

Re: Not Me...Ever part 2 Serenity13 #1881696 11/25/09 10:52 PM
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Gardener Member G Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut	Ah, cut yourself some slack. But I understand. Gardener "My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac

Re: Not Me...Ever part 2 Gardener #1881700 11/25/09 10:56 PM
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OP Serenity13 Member S Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 1,983 Florida	(((Hugs))) May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~

Re: Not Me...Ever part 2 Serenity13 #1881708 11/25/09 11:13 PM
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orangedog Member O Joined: Mar 2009 Posts: 1,181	That's rough Serenity. (((hugs))). Do cut yourself some slack. "My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh

Re: Not Me...Ever part 2 orangedog #1881717 11/25/09 11:35 PM
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OP Serenity13 Member S Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 1,983 Florida	Thanks O'dog... I am actually in a better place then earlier - I was reading something Gypsy posted to me and it really helped a lot... Instead of being angry at H, I am just sending my best wishes to him (via thoughts). I have to continuously remind myself that my "H" isn't the "H" I married - Once I can wrap my mind around this, I will be ok... Maybe I should just have it tattooed onto my wrist so I won't keep forgetting. May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~

Re: Not Me...Ever part 2 Serenity13 #1881720 11/25/09 11:46 PM
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Gardener Member G Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut	Serenity, Originally Posted By: Serenity13 I was reading something Gypsy posted to me and it really helped a lot... Isn't that list of Gypsy's absolutely wonderful? Every line a gem of wisdom. All, of course, learned the painful way. That list has helped prevent pain and stumbles for me, that's for sure. Gardener "My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac

Re: Not Me...Ever part 2 Gardener #1881727 11/25/09 11:55 PM
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OP Serenity13 Member S Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 1,983 Florida	Maybe I should have that list tattooed on me instead lol.... I wish I had read it before I allowed some wallowing however I am better now for having read it... I was contemplating texting (put the wood away) H to have a Happy Thanksgiving but I couldn't bring myself to do it... I just feel bad for him... We of course have been apart for many holidays due to him being in the military for 20 years however this is all so new... Not being with the ones you love on such a special day... Not knowing if he is going to have a nice homecooked meal... If he is going to be alone or with her... I have said it before and I will say it again - It would be much easier if I didn't love him. May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~

Re: Not Me...Ever part 2 Serenity13 #1881735 11/26/09 12:25 AM
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rockedworld Member R Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 1,256	(((((Serenity)))))

Re: Not Me...Ever part 2 rockedworld #1881736 11/26/09 12:29 AM
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OP Serenity13 Member S Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 1,983 Florida	(((((Rocked))))) Thank you my friend May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~

Re: Not Me...Ever part 2 Serenity13 #1881759 11/26/09 01:38 AM
Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 2,240 Oregon T TrentC Member
TrentC Member T Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 2,240 Oregon	Originally Posted By: Serenity13 That wasn't nice and I am sorry for even speaking like that. You're human. You're tired. It's OK. Have a great day tomorrow! Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement "Every day is another chance to get it right."

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