Key things to understand right now:

Forgiveness,Compassion,Listening,Empathy,Validation,Boundaries

Forgiveness: heals YOU from the past. It release you from YOUR anger and resentment.

Compassion: These are the tough times we vowed to support our spouse through. Spouse is hurting and it is important for us to understand this.

Listening: When we ask questions and listen to others, we gain understanding.

Empathy/Validation: This shows we understand. Validation does not mean AGREE.

Boundaries: Lets others know where our responsibilities end and theirs begin. Healthy boundaries are extremely important to start setting now. Find the boundaries thread and read it.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712