I'm sure that probably did make you mad. It would have been better for him to have said nothing and just paid his share. Of course a thank you for you taking her to the doctor wouldn't have been out of the question. I am sure he is struggling, but at the same time by his continued choices.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Yep. He is making his own stupid choices. Met me to get the kids last night and looked like absolute hell. Looked like he hadn't shaved in a week. He got mad b/c I didn't want him to come to Thanksgiving dinner at my family's w/me and the kids. Ummm,sorry,we are divorced and it had been ugly. Besides his little gf is def not welcome. lol
Then, later last night I get a message asking if we can spend New Years Eve together. I just ignored it. I totally do not understand this game of pursuing me while still with the og. It just pisses me off.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
Hey mindfull! Well, I play on FB and here...LOL. Do school work... go out with friends. Go to S games when that's going on. Yes, I have been on dates, and I do have a really nice, good guy I've been seeing lately. Nothing extremely serious. It will be a WHILE before I do any serious commitment with anyone.
You make me sound like a really good catch!! lol Sometimes I feel like the ringmaster of a 3 ring circus!
So we have about a week until basketball starts, then indoor soccer to follow shortly. I've gotta admit that I do have some minor withdrawls during the few weeks we have off from games. lmao.
My D and S are doing well. I am soooo thankful for my two great kids. My S (3rd gr) had a project for school yesterday called a "veggie visitor" (haha) where he had to dress up a veggie like a pilgrim or indian. He did it all by himself with no help from me and made a potato into an indian.He did the clothes and feathers for it's headdress. He even made it a little bow and arrow out of a toothpick and fishing line...haha. He won 1st place in the contest. So smart and creative. Not that I'm a proud mom..haha.
Thanksgiving they are gone the whole time with dad except for coming to eat with me that night then going back. I have plans with my friends and my bf for when the kids are gone. I want to stay busy and not dwell on them not being here. Especially since I don't trust their dad at all.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
Hey, where is your thread Mindfull? I almost put MF, but then...hahaha doesn't sound so great!
I'm off to shop at this place I heard of this week. It's a Matel toy clearance center and is supposed to have awesome deals. Lookin for some Christmas stuff! Barbie houses here I come!
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
