When my H filed, I really believed he thought I would just accept the terms and sign the papers. By the way, I know that feeling of seeing your names on those papers. It's sure tugs at your heart doesn't it. The H you loved, and the H who loved you now wants a D. So, when I retained an attorney and everything was put into writing of what I was entitled to, he had a major meltdown. The day he received my response, he pulled all his clothes out of the master closet, and all his toiletries out of the master bathroom. He did leave his ring on the closet shelf however. He forgot the fact he had ow for over a year by then. Like I had no reason to be upset but he did!
My advice is to protect yourself at this time. They are into themselves, and can be so selfish. I don't want a D, but I also don't want to be left out in the cold either. I'm only going along for the legality part.
I also gave GOD complete control over our M. I have managed to come through the last year with the STRENGTH I have gained along the way. I have weakened somewhat with the Dec 11th hearing coming up, but this is when I've stepped up my praying. Also, I've continued to treat him in the way GOD would want me to. It's hard believe me.
