Because we only have our cell phones and periodically I check our useage minutes/texts. I haven't seen anything since last March. She basically threw him out to the dogs so to speak after people were figuring it out.
Why - I guess because I know he's still hanging on to it. I've found pictures of her nothing provacative or anything in his truck/photo album, wallet. So it's clear he's hanging on to it.
We had our first round of couples counseling last night. He said we feel like roommates, admits he's selfish, etc.