Thanks for the sympathy Kimmie, I wrestle with what has happened and what my D13 knows about her mother, and what I could have done to sheild her more. I am not going to push her but I can see it starting to manifest itself in her behavior especially towards my S9. I have to give my D13 time just as I need to give my W time. I hope and pray that our family will heal one day.
Originally Posted By: Kimmie Lee
Just because someone is a parent doesn't mean they automatically deserve their child's respect. They just don't!
I have the said the same thing to my W, when I backslide one time, it was via text but as a reaction to her lie to my D13 when she told D13 that she would stop seeing OM and never stopped. I think that my W finally cracked when OM's W caught them in the act. I think the false reality my W created came crashing down and she might have realized what a mess she has made.
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