Yes, I had girl friends before my W. I broke up with most of them. I wasn't ready to be tied down to them when I broke up with them. I also had a few that broke up with me. I enjoyed playing the field when I was younger.
I had fun with them. I enjoyed them. But I wasn't serious about a relationship with them. I usually just went out with them for fun and to get laid now and then. I spent more time with my friends than I did pursuing a relationship. The couple that broke up with me, I will admit that I did become attached to. But the others that I did not become attached to and just had a girl friends for fun, I ended up breaking up with them.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...