I suppose you are right. I'm not sure desperation, but definitely immaturity. I will give you that. You just resort to all sorts of silly ways when you get hurt like that.
I can't say that I am DB'ing anymore. I am no longer pursuing. I just want her to know I have reached the end of my rope. I no longer think there is hope of reconciliation.
There was a line and she finally crossed. My words never have gotten through to her, so I try actions. I guess--indifference will have to do it for now...
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