Oh, I know the waiting place very well. Coach recommended Dr. Seuss' "Oh The Places You Will Go.". There's a part in there about the waiting place and how everyone is stuck there b/c they are all waiting on everyone else to do something.
Sounds like you are heading in the right direction. But, I can promise you limboland means dying a slow death. She isn't gonna lead out of that place, so that responsibility falls to you.
Coach made some great posts on my thread in the last month on this topic.
