Over the Shock and GALing 6

[TrentC]

It is still amazing to me that all of us sit here on this website and have so simliar of stories. How does it get to this point? How did we choose a wife so poorly?

Whoa! What? First - how did it get to this point? Then - how did we choose so badly?

Think that through.

You CHOSE her. Did you know this would happen? No and if you did, you would have chosen differently or done something else differently? Which one?

Do you think we WAW line up on the aisle thinking "...and one day, I'm going to be so lonely and empty, unloved and invisible that I will find another man to have an EA with and blast this marriage to bits. I will devastate my children and disappoint my parents. But most of all, I'm going to shatter that man at the end of the aisle. I do!"

d1 ~~~ you didn't choose badly. Both of you EXECUTED on your R badly for it to get to this point.

Greek

...OK, I just deleted my response because you said it better than I could.