Please bear with me... there is a method to this madness in my convoluted mind....

You said you went to mediation and couldn't agree. Is there anything in the legal agreement that you have now that stipulates that your finances are separated. i.e. Any debt you have accumulated since date X is your own responsibility.

So, how is the debt going to be handled?

M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married
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