IMHO, I think its much healthier to detach on your own...without the crutch of someone else. Build yourself up. This year and a half has taught me just that. I DON'T NEED A MAN to be happy. Sure, I get lonly and who wouldn't love a companion? But I am not going to die tomorrow if I don't.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
