Originally Posted By: rockedworld
Even when he is clear he is not yet committing to the M?


Giving up the OW would be committing to work things out. He won't completely commit to the M as long as he has an OW in his back pocket.

Originally Posted By: rockedworld
I didn't think I could ask for transparency until then....?


You can ask for it any time you dang well feel like it. It's your boundary.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."