Even when he is clear he is not yet committing to the M?
Giving up the OW would be committing to work things out. He won't completely commit to the M as long as he has an OW in his back pocket.
Originally Posted By: rockedworld
I didn't think I could ask for transparency until then....?
You can ask for it any time you dang well feel like it. It's your boundary.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement