If we get into a legal hassle over money, H will become the pettiest petty person in pettyville. That is the main reason why I even considered letting him hose me over financially. I'd rather have a civil relationship over money.
Yeah, but you can give up the money now and still end up not having a civil relationship.
The court can enforce child/spousal support, they can't make him be nice to you.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement