Thank you so much for sharing your story. In my own marriage I was depressed for the last couple years but did not know why. I was in a sexless marriage and I knew I could not cheat so I just learned to accept it. We only ML about 1 or 2 times every 3 months and the longest stretch was 1.5 years during and after our last pregnancy. I just thought that she was low drive and that was ok because I loved her and I was in it for the long haul. I did not bother to think that maybe she didnt what to ML to me because I was not respected by her.Now I know that is probably the biggest reason.
She has a chest cold right now and is going to the doctor today. So, last night I sent a text that read, "I hope you feel better soon." and she sent back "thanks!" Should I ask how the doctor visit went? Or is that too much talk in too short a time?
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
