It's all right. I've called friends of mine in tears, or on the verge of tears, since this started.
I can't imagine that I'd be doing much better if our situations were reversed.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement