I don't want to be D'd, but I am tired of auditioning for the part of my W's H and tired of trying to convince someone to love me. You see how unhealthy that is? If my W doesn't want to love me, then I don't want her. I deserve (we all do) better.
I second that.
I feel like I have arrived at the same place as you and Thinker. Both Thinker and I have been dealing with the situaiton for a year and there was an OM involved as well. I am sooooo close to telling W we need to get going and just file for D, but I will bite my toungue for a little longer and just enjoy the holiday weekend with my kids, put up my xmas lights, and possibly get a tree.
ME/XW:47 S21, D19, S15, S14 M:21 T:26 W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12 W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline
