Need some advice from experienced DBer's

[Gardener]

mo3,
Thoughts from an experienced, though unsuccessful DBer.

If that's what you've decided, tell him.

Also, you're not really terminating anything since it was never put into effect or enforced completely. All the Pre-Divorce logistics, if you will, were done just fine:1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 8, 9.

Those items dealing with repair and reconciliation
(7 & 10) have not been put into effect.

And think about this: On #2, he went to an attorney. Not a violation, but he was the only one who made sure he availed himself of that option.

And it seems like 8 might be iffy on his part, too.

So, my approach would be: It's been Null and Void from the very start - in its most important aspects. So, I'm out if you don't want to work on us.

But you should know that I am biased here: in my case STBXW suggested a 1 yr. "respite". She broke every single "agreement" while leading Gardener, appropriately, "down the Garden Path".