GIMA - hopefully your W just needs help to find what she is looking for.
I think my W thinks there is something that she is missing. She says she loves me still (has recently). She has kissed me, been passionate with me, and slept with me only a few weeks ago. It makes it so much harder to accept that we are done. She's not planning to file for D at this point. She said she may miss me in a month and find the feelings that she has been missing. Then she said maybe 6 months from she will be independent and the happiest she has ever been.
My response was that I couldn't guarantee I would be open to her coming back. I said the door is open, but I can't keep it that way forever.
I'm going back and forth from the numbness.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.