I said exactly that, his response was...just remember that you made me want to leave.
And just remember, he's in total control of his actions. You didn't "make" him do anything. That's a crap answer to make you feel bad.
Stay strong.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement