I must say the thoughts in my head are annoying. I am actively hoping she is miserable without us during the holiday. How's that for resentment/anger??? Anyone want to beat that today???
You are fighting a losing battle here. And truth is, you're really just fighting with yourself.
I understand the emotions, and, yes, they're normal. But, they are destructive...for you.
As hard as it might be, put your focus on you and D. Do something different with her. Some new tradition for just you and her.
