Hold the line. You've set the boundary. There are consequences for both parties. Accept you share and let her live up to hers.
Very well put, point taken, and yes, boundry is thus enforced.
Finally got a free moment and called S11 back. I don't know how many times I re-stated, this is not a conversation for you and I to be having, it is between mom and I. So, in a way, I had to set a boundry on my own kid, but enough is enough. He understood the end result and accepted and knew that I'm sorry we can't be together tonight, and I WILL see them tomorrow.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11