MO3, you don't need to bring it up. Let him bring it up, and go from there to just end it. You don't need to elaborate because to me that would be discussing the R. I would just do DB and learn all you can about the process of detaching. We're both, it seems, in the same point in the process. I have alot to get used to, and the biggest effort is this: learning to separate emotion from detachment. What has been said in these forums is that successful detachment will only help you to move forward and save yourself and carry you into the future--that future could be with or without H, but you yourself will be a more confident person.
Look at it this way, we all know life goes on and we're going to get over this, we might as well start now.
