Wife texted me, she'd be back in town with kids so they could see me tgiving.
texted back: have fun tell the others hi,don't have to rush back u guys to c ur family,kids and i had tgiving be safe.
I'm really stinging but what can i do. least it was over a text so she wouldn't c how bad i hurt.
got my last tattoo done last nite, all her names are covered up.
but if things get restored, i'll tell her the meaning of the lighthouse.
for now it's what i want to be and it has a lot of meaning regardless of what happens.
i wish i had more regrets about our M, but i don't and that's what really hurts, i didn't do anything catastrophic, i put my family first.
Grace I looked up avoidant personality, those are the ones that most often file when they hit mlc.
my wife was a codependent with an avoidant personality. i wish she'd get to a point of rewriting things she share her feelings, i'd rather know her intimately that way.
so many things i've learned and don't have her to share them with.
