OK Coach... I hear you... I am maintaining the same boundaries I set some time ago when the A came to light... But, what specifically can I do with this? I can't control or stop him from being in contact with her. What boundaries can/do I set regarding his on-going contact with her?
The boundary I have already set is that I will not provide the priviledges of having a wife (eg. sex, laundry, extra little AOS I used to do etc.) until he is willing to commit to me and treat me with the love and respect a wife deserves. He has been respecting this boundary, but sure has tested me in each of those areas. I have stood my ground.
Is there something different/more I should be doing re: the contact issue?
