Need some advice from experienced DBer's

[motherof3]

MO3, during this 'contract' period, have you noticed any attitude changes in H? It seems to me it's just putting things on hold. I would immediately follow DR if you haven't done so already. From my experience, I've been detaching for over 2 months, but have slipped and faltered from time to time. DR goes against our normal instincts that it takes a concentrated effort.

just my $0.02.

Thanks Sam,

It is hard to say whether there have been any attitude changes. Some days he is more chatty than others, but I try not to read too much into that. I agree with you in that the contract is just putting things on hold. That is why I am considering terminating the contract.

Two - Three weeks into the contract I started practicing the DB concepts. I have had my occassional slip ups too. But who doesn't?

So are you suggesting I should let H know that I would like to end our contract that has been put in place? Any ideas how I could go about this without straying from DB?

I liked what GIMA had to say, but would love any insight you care to share as well.