Need some advice from experienced DBer's

[motherof3]

MO3,

I am not suggesting you date while M'd. Others might, but that's not me. I don't think you thought I was suggesting that. Just want to make sure.

I understood you completely. Just wanted to clarify my position for others who may be reading this too.

Also, you are correct that detachment and emotions are seperate. We love our spouses, despite the current situations. Detachment is something else apart from that.

Yep, learned that from reading your sitch.