It helps you become a person that attracts the who you want, and hopefully the when, how and why follows.
WANT being the powerful word here. Is it really WANT or DESIRE or NEED? You are wanting someone for a reason. If you WANT someone, it is possibly because you have a need that you WANT met. Whether it is the need to not be lonely, the need to share with someone, etc. I think that WANT often correlates with NEED when it comes to people and relationships. I could go further into this, but I don't have the time today.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...