Here is a good hijack for everyone...Thinker, Coach listen to this.
I get a text from my wife last night that she had to go show a house. She took our 3 sons with her. It was Tony's uncle. Who is Tony you ask if you have forgotten:
-Wife admitted an emotional affair with him -Wife said he professed his love for her -Wife said in a text I love you, I loved you for 20 years(but wait she said that she meant to add as friends) -When I called him and said to leave us alone, he said F'off. Not defended by wife -Wife texted Tony at one point, I hate him, he responded "kick him out"
Not less than a week ago in counseling, she said I understand what I did was an emotional affair and how it hurt you.
One week later----
So now she goes over to his place, the kids and her hang out with him for an hour. His sister then babysits my kids why they go look at houses. Then they all go out to eat together.
She also had my sons try to lie about that they really weren't there that long.
Well, for me. That is all I can take. That was the ultimate insult. She has to be the ugliest person inside to actually do that to me. I told her as much last night. And a few other choice words. Her response was I'm sorry, I didn't think it would be that big of deal.
This is the ultimate lack of respect for the father of her children. I am out. I am done. I am filing....
Remarried 6 mo S 12 S 13 S 16 SD 12 SD 16 SD 17 SS 19