here lies one of the keys to DBing. When you understand your WAS then you can connect with them.
Why do they avoid their kids?
Why blow-up the family?
Why do they spout "script"?
Why do they stay in the "fog"?
Why do they do any of it?
Do you think this is what they planned when they married you?
You might not agree with what they are doing but seek to understand why. Validating someones else's POV is a powerful tool in breaking down walls.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
