I think your ex needs to move her butt and get the kids to you if that's her responsibility during drop-offs.
It is in black and white, signed by the judge HER responsibility to transport them to me.
I have only been doing the favor of picking them up since I pass right by "their" house on my way home from work, so it ony maid sense. This practice is officially over.
I have never given her the luxury of switching weekends or any unscheduled overnights so I would not end up being takenadvantage of. That has been a frim stance.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11