Divorced and want to reconcile...

[dday101798]

its that my emotional attachment to him is real and when he says he doesn't have one for me (and his actions say otherwise),

This just solidifies why I tell you, the roles are reversed now, and he is in turn doing what you did to him, and probably for a variety of reasons. Seriously, take it for what it's worth, enjoy the good feelings you get and I guess it's time I start to remind you of the LBS motife (s/p): believe nothing they (WAS) says. Got it?

anyway, the "date" is nothing serious. I expect nothing out of it but some good socializing, maybe a little flirting after a few beers (as usual on both accords) but that's about where it stops. Neither of us are in any type of situation for anything binding, so, it's just all in good fun. For me, it's nice because I've been dealing with a on and off feeling of rejection lately and need to get over that.

Unsettled nitpicking? That's an understatement. Now it looks as if my darling XW is going to go so far as to flat out deny me my holiday visitation, yup, she's that petty and all I have done is bend over backwards to keep the peace with her. I simply don't understand her angst and anger so much to go and violate the rules and place herself in contemp of court, but, hey, that's not my problem to solve. And thus:

"God grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change......

Courage to change the things I can,

And wisdom to know the difference."