well i set a boundary that i would no longer allow exchanges of daughter in my work parking lot at 630 am. she is sick, sounds like a seal. he refused to pick her up at my house so i had to call into work.

so i think he's testing me to see if i will put her in daycare so now i have to follow through with it. that means there are consequences for me as well. that means i can no longer pay my mortgage.

since i filed with our court to do their counseling session everythign is stayed until jan 2010. so i can't file for child support or anything.


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline