"lets be honest. Most people that claim they are happy with themselves and have "detached" and are able to move on, do so because they have created the thought and image of someone else in their life, thereby still putting their happiness in the hope of someone else. They detached from their current relationship/M only because of a happy thought of someone else filling in their needs that they can't get met in their M anymore. I see it way to often on this site by people claiming they have detached and are happy with themselves and it is really a fasad. They have just transferred their happiness to another person or the thought of another person."
And I have come to realize that this board must be sponsered by Vaseline Intensive Care Hand Lotion.
If it makes you happy being with and sharing with another person then be happy. Detachment is not necessarily the solution to having a productive, fruitful, and happy life.
