Thanks Karen, I'm often finding myself doing the bending with only the kids interest in mind and not my own. crazy

Now, I get a voice mail from S11 who was obviously ripped out of bed to make the call that "so we won't be seeing you tomorrow? mom can't drive and has no way of getting us out by you".

WTF do I do now? I'm of the standing, her inability to drive is certainly NOT my problem. And boy oh boy, as much as I'd hate to not see my kids on my scheduled holiday, how are you going to explain defying a court order for a mandated holiday visitation?!?!


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11