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[awest1217]

I agree S4H, but what is getting me is maybe he has changed completely this time. Maybe reading the books and actually talking about everything has changed his thoughts. That is what I am struggling with. Do I give him another chance with boundaries because he is showing some change, or do I just say forget it you had your chance? I just don't know. He has been "buffeting" it for many years. They were always EA, which to me is so much worse, but there is possibility that some were PA. Plus he always did stuff of the internet.

I am just torn because if he really is changing from reading the books, then why not try again because he has never actually done something about it, but at the same time, I am tired of this continuing. Like I said I am very confused and I think only time will tell. I know what I want and have told H that on different occasions so we will see what happens. Patience.