Well I went over there. Went to have the conversation and we talked music.
Good. How was the temperature? i.e. How did he seem to you?
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So I am going to let it drop for now and if my friend brings it up. I will talk
Also good.
If you want to keep this friendship going make sure to never be left alone with her for any extended period of time. Do not get into any long discussions with her without him being around. If she ever pulls you aside to talk privately gently inform her that you are not comfortable with it and pull him into the conversation ASAP.
Under no circumstances are you to be alone with her. If she comes to visit you, gently let her know that you're not comfortable being alone with her. Tell her that if the tables were reversed this is something you would not like your W to be doing. Use one of those famous WAS cliches, "It's not you, it's me."
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT
