K4D Rising #4

[MrBond]

"lets be honest. Most people that claim they are happy with themselves and have "detached" and are able to move on, do so because they have created the thought and image of someone else in their life, thereby still putting their happiness in the hope of someone else. They detached from their current relationship/M only because of a happy thought of someone else filling in their needs that they can't get met in their M anymore. I see it way to often on this site by people claiming they have detached and are happy with themselves and it is really a fasad. They have just transferred their happiness to another person or the thought of another person."

Pardon my French but that has got to be the stupidest thing you've said so far. After ALLLL this time, you don't understand a thing about detachment. We DO NOT detach because we know there is someone out there to fulfill our needs other than our spouses. We do it because we are REALLY happy just being with ourselves. If we find someone, that's great, but you find out that you're happy just being with you.

I can't believe after all that everyone has been trying to tell you and teach you, you come up with an ignorant statement like that.

Sorry if this post seems harsh, but after reading that, I actually felt pissed. I actually felt sorry for everyone who has posted to you and you not hearing anything.

That statement alone deserves an apology to 25, CG and the others. Geez Kevin, where do you come up with stuff like that?! It's rude and insulting to those of us who have really detached.