Augtan - I just read this on a thread by Stronger over on Newcomers .... I thought it might be helpful foryou ....
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And for all of you combating the OP.....this is important for you. Last week my therapist gave me a great analogy. (Apparently that's how I need things explained to me.) In terms of the OW, I wish she had said this to me MONTHS ago....
"W, you are like a lion. You roar. You can sit there and roar the truth at H all you want. But all he hears is yelling. He's not hearing anything you say, he only knows there's yelling and arguing AGAIN. But then OW comes along, slitering like the snake she is and whispers lies through her split tongue....smiling. And he listens because he's relaxed and NOT being yelled at. All he knows is he's not being yelled at....so he rather listen to lies than have the truth yelled at him.....stop roaring. Stop yelling."
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Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
