Really, if the "danger" here is becoming a stronger, healthier person, who has healed to the point where you just happen to no longer be interested in restoring a relationship that has gone through the things that some of ours have, is that really so bad?
No, it's not bad. It's just puzzling because at one time we all found our ex's appealing. I know one thing, I no longer fear being alone even if it means for the rest of my life. I'm involved with so many things that make me happy and keep my interest right now. I'm comfortable in my routine as a single Man and Father. That was the biggest hurdle for me to overcome, the unknown. I didn't know what to do with myself after being committed to a Woman for so long. Complacency has a way of sneaking up on you and robbing you of new experiences and the satisfaction that comes with conquering new challenges.
Do you guys ever look around at your Married friends and think to yourself that their life seems boring? LOL
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"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
