Maybe her OM now has a boyfriend in prison.

Originally Posted By: Astimegoeson
The problem is no longer her behavior, but the person I have grown into over the past 4 years of being alone.

Is this a problem? I think you are just indifferent and have moved on. There may be a bit of hidden common sense telling you to not risk her hurting you again.

Originally Posted By: Astimegoeson
I never thought it would happen, but I do not find her emotionally or physically attractive any longer.

I am of the same feelings as you about my XW. I am happy that we can coparent with little conflict.